Just A Reminder...

Hi guys
      Happy new year fam. So last year almost everyone made some sort of new year goals or new year resolutions that they want to achieve or something they just want to get over with or be done with. "I did too". This post is just a reminder for those declarations. Its pretty easy to pick up a pen and write or declare what we want, but in other for us to see the results, we have to put in the work.

      Some of us might have forgotten what we declared. To be honest i also can't remember some of them (i did not write them down). And sometimes it just comes to my mind.

      For me this year I choose to be Happy unapologetically, i choose to embrace My Self worth, Self love and Self improvement.
Now I realized that with all that I have set to achieve, I can't achieve them with some certain kinds of people around me or with some of my current attitude or mentality.

I have a very small circle of friends and i must say that am very comfortable with them. You see I must mean something to my friends and they must mean something or so much to me.

      To achieve some of your goals, you better believe  Somethings must go, You must obtain some, Let go of certain negative people and just focus. We cant keep doing the same  thing and except to see some changes or improvements. Its fine if your ideas are awkward or it feels silly. To be  honest i really don’t care, last year i did care about unnecessary things and people but this year it's just Me, Myself and I. 










      So this year I dont have time for negativity. I wont tolerate failure. Please tell me how you intend to achieve some of your new year goals in the comment section. And do you think you can achieve those things with the crowd you follow??


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