BEING JUDGED
Judgement is an opinion or decision based on thoughts, feelings and evidence "within the first seven seconds of meeting someone, our brain makes you different decision, about them including their intelligence, socioeconimic status, education, competence and trustworthiness, " said corporate image consultant and personal braind strategist Anna Hinson.
It's so easy to pass out judgement on other people and most times we expect not to be judged. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Judgement can be positive or negative, everyone has a philosophy or a certain way they feel one should live his/her life. How you deal with this judgement is up to you.
One thing is you can't satisfy everyone just do what is right and make sure you are happy.
Judging only becomes a problem when we make unnecessary, hurtful or unfair judgment based on little evidence. People will always question how you choose to live your life and they will always have something to say about it. You own your life so leave it to the fullest as long as you do not hurt or endanger anyone in other to make yourself happy.
It's so easy to pass out judgement on other people and most times we expect not to be judged. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Judgement can be positive or negative, everyone has a philosophy or a certain way they feel one should live his/her life. How you deal with this judgement is up to you.
One thing is you can't satisfy everyone just do what is right and make sure you are happy.
Judging only becomes a problem when we make unnecessary, hurtful or unfair judgment based on little evidence. People will always question how you choose to live your life and they will always have something to say about it. You own your life so leave it to the fullest as long as you do not hurt or endanger anyone in other to make yourself happy.
So when you feel you are being judged by people (positive or negative) don't feel sad, you can't control being judged or you passing out judgement on other people it's a subconscious process.
WORD... DEEP... TRUTH!!!
ReplyDeleteWeak people derive joy in judging others. Strong and focus people don't have time judging because they are occupied with realization of their dreams. Good one Taiwo
ReplyDeleteHi, I am Szilvia. True Ademola, strong and focus people don't have time judging and gossiping. Once a girl asked me at a fast-food restaurant: How is it possible that everyone gossips except you? She meaned the girls behind the cash register who sell the food. I belive in positive marketing. We have to whisper about good things. Bad experiences do not deserve any reclame. Read my blog: FREEDOM #80 FlyghtClub & his friends You make connections while others sleep and miss opportunities. http://food-fashion-finance-freedom.blogspot.com/2017/03/freedom-80-flyghtclub-and-his-friends.html I thing this travel app can be so popular soon as Whatsapp. Greetings from Amsterdam, the Netherlands, Szilvia
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